Kyle O'Neill
a little about me —

Kyle O'Neill

I'm a coach, a collaborator, and someone who genuinely believes you can do this.

My path to this work

I don't think I ever seriously considered a career where working with people wasn't central. Growing up in Northern California, surrounded by friends and family who made their mark as teachers, mentors, and leaders, it was role-modeled for me how to work with people in a way that challenged them while maintaining their dignity.

My path wasn't linear. I moved alone across the country for a graduate program in mental health counseling in New Hampshire — for the education and because the environment encouraged self-reflection. After a year, I transferred into the Educational Leadership program. I wasn't comfortable with the role insurance companies played in therapy and felt my career path was changing. That move aligned me with my family's values of education, development, and believing in people's potential beyond stereotypes.

Six years after moving to New Hampshire, I made another leap. I packed up and drove across the country by myself — five days — back to Northern California. Although I loved the Granite State, my career opportunities were limited, so it was time to go home. This return set the stage for my first explicitly L&D role. Over the past decade, I've built and refined supervisor skills curricula, taught workshops on complex topics such as emotional intelligence and bias management, and honed my coaching skills.

Threshold Training came together when two things converged. I spent years developing practical management training in my L&D work and saw how much it changed people once they had the tools they needed. At the same time, I was introduced to some small business owners and entrepreneurs who needed guidance in supervisory skills, and it was easy to see the broader need. The skills are teachable. The gap is real. I wanted to help close it.

my approach —

I'm here to give you the tools, the framework, and the honest conversation that turns well-intentioned managers into confident, capable leaders.

What guides the work

My values

Human Dignity First

Making a living is important, but we have to begin with a base level of respect and acknowledgment of autonomy.

Accessibility

I strive to model an understanding that "different people are different." I will try multiple strategies to convey information.

Growth Mindset

People of all ages and backgrounds are capable of learning. A belief in training is grounded in this idea.

Engagement

From visual tools to hands-on exercises, your participation and insight aren't just welcome — they're part of how the learning works.

Information Quality

My workshops are a synthesis of research from multiple sources. I will always share if I don't know the answer, rather than fake it.

Honest Partnership

I'll be honest about what I can and cannot accomplish and keep you updated on my progress. I value your confidence in me.

More about me

Kyle O'Neill
📚 I read somewhere between 100 and 130 books a year — primarily gay romance, with a healthy mix of history, psychology, and general professional development.
🍳 I cook and bake — it's one of the ways I decompress and get creative outside of work.
🎨 I paint and craft. Making things with my hands keeps me grounded.
🏒 I'm a devoted Buffalo Sabres fan, which has been its own character-building exercise.
🏠 I live in Western New York with my husband, and most of my family lives nearby.
Background & experience
Education
Master of Education
Educational Leadership · Plymouth State University
Bachelor of Arts in Humanities
San Francisco State University
Certifications
Extended DISC
Certified Practitioner
Predictive Index
Certified Practitioner
Experience
10+
years in Learning & Development
70+
people coached

Let's find out if we're a good fit.

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